2018年10月14日 星期日

【天堂來信】當人生贏得頭彩

天父說:    God said:


接受和理解不是相互依存的。如果你試圖徹底理解生活之後才接受它,那麼你在與生活抗爭。要知道接受生活本來的樣子才更加明智。最好不去爭論,接受生活如其所是。你很清楚當你站在海邊,是阻止不了浪潮的。

Acceptance and understanding are not synonymous. If you seek complete understanding of Life before you accept Life, you are then arguing with Life. It is wiser of you to accept Life as it is. It is better not to dispute Life. Take Life as it comes. You know very well you can"t stand in front of the Ocean and stem the tide.


當然,在你中頭彩的時候,生活都是美好的。每當這種時刻,你會舉杯慶祝。生活是好朋友,你很愉悅,心情舒暢。你認為贏得頭彩是巨大的成功。從另一方面說,當生活施加一些有違你的意願的東西給你時,你便稱之為失敗。你看到了失敗並感覺失敗是個悲劇。

Of course, when you win the lottery, Life is okay. At times like this, you cheer Life on. Life is your good friend, and you are well-pleased. You call hitting the jackpot big time as a win. On the other hand, when Life drops something in your lap that is contrary to your will, you call it a loss. You see a loss and feel a loss as a tragedy.


當生活不如意時,你反對接受生活所呈現的樣子。你的心受到了傷害。你認為這是針對你個人的。生活本不該如此,更不要說還恰恰發生在了你的身上。所以你評判生活的不足,認為自己是受害者。悲劇持續著。

You are opposed to taking Life as it comes when Life isn"t what you want. Your heart is wounded. You take it personally. Life was not supposed to let this happen, let alone do it to you. And so you judge Life wanting and yourself as a victim. Tragedy lingers.


在這個世界上,心痛是相對的。你將心痛按程度劃分,有強有弱。有時候它只是一種失望,這種心痛會持續一兩天,有的時候是巨大的悲痛後的心碎,你的心也許永遠無法復原,但是隨著時間的流逝,你的痛苦會漸漸消退。你並沒有完全走出痛苦,因為傷害和難以置信還一如往昔,但憤怒感和震驚在日趨淡忘。

In the world, heartache is relative. You register heartache on some kind of scale. There are greater and lesser heartaches. Some are disappointments and last a day or two. Some are great heartbreaks, and you may never get over them, though, by and by, some of your bitterness fades. You may not get over it all, yet, as hurtful and even unbelievable as it is, the offense and shock are less.


最壞的事情發生了。我的孩子們中有的人可以戰勝痛苦走出陰霾,但並非每個人都能做到。這就是你們能夠扭轉浪潮,人為做出改變之處。

The worst happened. Some of My children may get over it, yet not everyone can seem to. This is where you can turn the tide.


當摩西大喊:"容我的百姓去"時,法老是不會照做的。

When Moses cried out, "Let my people go," the Pharaoh would not let the people go.


現在你該要求自己,讓過去的和以往的怨恨都成為過去。親愛的,無論生活犯下了何等罪過,讓那份痛成為過去吧。

Now it is for you to ask yourself to let the past and resentment go. Dear Ones, whatever the crime Life has committed, let the pain of it go.


你也許覺得生活傷害了你,但是生活不是針對你的。 生活不是故意作弄你。

You may feel attacked by Life, yet Life is not directed at you. Life isn"t picking on you.


放下你過去對生活的那些理解吧,這也許是你做過的最艱難的一件事,然而過去的就讓它過去吧。

It may be the hardest thing you have ever done – to let go of your take on Life, yet you"ve got to let bygones be bygones.


你必須放下這樣的想法,即生活或者上帝是故意針對你,事實並不是這樣的。一些人在龍捲風肆虐後倖存下來,而另一些人卻沒那麼幸運。有的摯愛的人毫髮無損,有的失去了生命。你不可以心存怨恨。懷有怨恨就如同在吞食毒藥。

You"ve got to let go of the idea that Life or God is out to get you. It isn"t so. Some survive a tornado, and some do not. Some loved ones stay intact, and some loved ones lose their physical lives. You just can"t hold a grudge. Holding a grudge is the same as taking doses of poison.


你必須放下責備的念頭。我的孩子們,有些人絆倒或跌倒時會怪罪人行道,可惡的人行道。所有需要瞭解的事實只是一個孩子摔倒並擦傷了膝蓋而已。完全沒必要將人行道說成是一個兇手,並且,確定的說,受害者並不存在。在某處絆倒只是生活的一部分。你們自己定義了其代價的大或者小。生活中一些事件可怕得不敢想像,但還是發生了。在任何情況下,你都必須振作起來繼續前行。

You"ve got to let go of the idea of blame. Some children, if they trip or fall, have learned to blame the sidewalk. Bad sidewalk. All that can be known for a fact is that a child fell and scraped his knee. Not even the sidewalk needs to be made into a villain, and, surely, there is no victim. Part of life is tripping over something. It is you who calls the cost high or low. Some events in life are too terrible to think of, and yet they happen. In every case, you have to pick yourself up and keep going.

在你承受你所認為的巨大損失之前,你會得到巨大的收穫。感恩你曾擁有的歡樂吧。重新找回生活的甜美。痛苦不是祝福,要將悲痛拋諸腦後。甚至不要對自己說:"我如何才能擺脫痛苦呢?"

In order to have what you perceive as a great loss, you had to have a previous great gain. Be grateful for the joy you did have. Restore sweetness to your life. Bitterness is no blessing. Be done with bitterness. Do not say even to yourself:"How can I let go of this hurt?"


打開心的枷鎖。對自己說抱歉,對你愛的人說抱歉,他們希望看到你得到快樂。

Let go of the vise you have clamped your heart with. Apologize to yourself, and apologize to your loved ones who want to see you happy.


從悲痛中走出來吧。對於那些肉體離開了這個世界的摯愛的人致敬並緬懷他們,起身迎接朝露, 迎接升起的太陽,讓晨露蒸騰。迎接這個世界,迎接新生。生命是如此美好,你值得擁有美好的生活。生活不是一場競賽,你也不必選隊參賽。擦乾眼淚。再給生活一個機會。去享有並去熱愛每一天。與自己和解吧。

Get out of mourning. In tribute to a loved one whose body disappeared from the face of the Earth, arise and greet the morning dew and greet the Sun that evaporates the dew. Greet the world, and greet Life. Life is a fine thing to have. Life is not a contest, and you are not to take sides. Wipe your tears. Give Life another chance. Live and love another day. Make peace with yourself.


原文:http://www.heavenletters.org/when-you-win-the-lottery-life-is-okay.html
傳導:Gloria Wendroff 發佈於2016年06月23日    翻譯:紫蝶
校對:天堂豎琴     http://blog.sina.com.cn/u/1554109041

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